Thoughts from Al Kindy

Love isn’t the search for perfect person but acceptation of imperfect one with all his lucks as perfection.

Love, Chance or Choice

When we meet right person in right time while we’re in right place and right time - is the chance.

If you meet someone whom you like - it’s not a choice but chance.

To capture the moment (a lot of people stay together because of it) isn’t a choice either but chance.

Difference is what happens after all when we getting passion ally involved.

Next step is when first feelings and passion cools down and you start thinking: either you want to turn everything into certain relationship or this is just a flirt.

If you decide to love person with all his mistakes and odds - this isn’t chance but choice.

If you decide to stay with person no matter why - this is the choice.

Even if you know that there are lots of others who more beautiful, smarted and richer than your darling (the chosen one) and despite that you keep on loving him just the way he is - this is the choice.

Passion, flirt, sympathy come to us by chance.

But the real love, that last forever - is the real choice. Choice that we make.

Regarding meant - to be - for each other – souls (soul mates), it’s a beautiful movie that says: "Fate brings you together but it’s up to you to make it work - to be happy"

I’m sure that such souls do exist. There is someone who was born for you.

But it’s up to you to choose if you’re going to do something about it.

We can meet our soul mate by chance, but to love this person and to stay with him - remains to be a choice that we have to make.

We came to this world not to find perfect person but to learn how to love imperfect one for real...